May 31st, 2023. Day +4464. Charlotte turns 15!   3 comments

And….it’s been another year since many of you have heard from us.

Charlotte turns 15 today and she is finishing up her freshman year in High School. She’s been busy with several different band groups and went to the Nationals Competition for Archery earlier this month.

Hope you all have been well. Tell your friends and family that you appreciate them.

Posted May 31, 2023 by L. Elske in Uncategorized

May 31st, 2022. Day +4099. Charlotte turns 14!!   Leave a comment

It’s hard to believe that it’s been another year since I last posted.

Today Charlotte turned 14! It has been a super busy month for our teenager! She was confirmed, graduated 8th grade, and had another fantastic birthday.

We’ve had another fun and exciting year. We adopted a rescue dog from Puerto Rico, and her name is Copper. She’s quite the handful but we love her anyway!

We spent a week in a rented lake home last summer with the Sun Prairie Elske family and Grandma and Grandpa Elske. We fished, went tubing, grilled out, played all sorts of board games and had a fun time at the lake.

Charlotte participated in Marching Band with the high schoolers last fall, and plans to this year as well. We had a fun family road trip to Universal Studios, Florida in January and returned home in time for another successful season with our Cardinals Unlimited NASP Archery Program. She took home the top female Middle School archer, and the Katniss award-presented to the top female archer in the whole Columbus program, grades 4-12.

Molly has signed up as well and claimed the top female Elementary School archer as well! I also joined as an assistant coach to keep the girls practicing!

Posted May 31, 2022 by L. Elske in Uncategorized

March 11th, 2021. Day +3653. 10 years post transplant!!!   Leave a comment

Today we celebrated the 10 year anniversary of Charlotte’s stem cell transplant.  We will be eternally grateful for Erin and the wonderful doctors and nurses that have helped Charlotte throughout her journey.  She’s grown into a wonderful and happy young lady and an awesome big sister.

We are still enjoying our time together-still mostly stuck at home.  But we’re thankful that we have our family and friends that share in our good health and are looking forward to some warmer, spring-like weather and fresh air!!

Please continue to stay safe and keep in touch with your friends and loved ones.  Everyone is tired of being cooped up.  Everyone wants a break from the same old-same old.  Everyone would prefer to go back to the way things were.  That’s not an excuse to put others at risk.  We’re fortunate to live in a time when we’ve never had more technology, more tools, at our disposal for staying connected with those outside of our homes.  Text your friends.  Zoom your pastor.  For heaven’s sake, call your sister.  They are all just as bored as you are and would love to hear from you.

Posted March 11, 2021 by L. Elske in Uncategorized

September 11th, 2020. Day +3472. 10 years since diagnosis!!!   1 comment

Charlotte’s Angels

by Amy Elske

10 years since diagnosis day!

As the years have gone by, I started to let myself dream of Charlotte celebrating 10 years of remission.  I imagined a huge party where I could bring together each and every one of Charlotte’s Angels who supported us and cheered us on.  I imagined having Charlotte’s dream team gathered together of her amazing doctors, nurses and bone marrow donor all in one fantastic picture.  To have them stand together with Charlotte to celebrate the little 2 year old they saved.

But alas, due to COVID this just didn’t seem possible.  So instead, to honor the 10 year anniversary of Charlotte’s diagnosis, we want to share pictures of the incredible people who helped us along the way.  (I’m sad to say I do not have pictures of everyone!). I’m too nervous to try to name you all personally as I do not want to exclude anyone accidentally.  Instead, I will simply say thank you (which doesn’t even begin to say enough) to each and every one of Charlotte’s Angels.  

You are a Charlotte’s Angel if you:

  • Made us meals
  • Sent Charlotte a gift/toy during treatment
  • Sent us an encouraging note or card
  • Cut our lawn or cleared our driveway of snow
  • Said a prayer for us
  • Cleaned our house
  • Sponsored or attended a fundraiser/benefit for Charlotte
  • Assembled furniture for Charlotte’s new bedroom
  • Helped in home remodeling projects to make our home safer
  • Sent us a gift of money or gift card
  • Picked up the slack at work for either Amy and Lon to allow us to be at the hospital
  • Donated blood or signed up to be a bone marrow donor in honor of Charlotte
  • Read Charlotte’s blog each day. Your amazing words of support helped us get through some of the bad days!
  • Shared your story as a fellow cancer mama
  • Helped grant Charlotte’s Make-A-Wish trip
  • Gave us a free photography session
  • Donated items for a fundraiser
  • Donated vacation time to Lon or my mother to allow them more time at the hospital
  • Volunteered at AFCH as a playroom buddy
  • Became a member of one of our own fundraiser teams (ie: for Make-A-Wish or LLS)
  • Are part of the amazing agencies of: Badger Childhood Cancer Network, Make-A-Wish, LLS, Flashes of Hope, Gabe’s Chemo Duck, Be The Match, Songs of Love, Give Kids the World, and BAHBAD.

And with a very special thanks to…..

  • OUR FAMILY – we wouldn’t have made it a day without our parents and siblings!
  • Staff at Dean Clinic – Sun Prairie, St. Mary’s Hospital and American Family Children’s Hospital.  We love each and every staff person that crossed our path at these facilities!
  • DREAM TEAM – Dr. Danielle Gindlesberger, Dr. Sabrina Wagner, Dr. Diamond, Dr. DeSantes, Katy Zahm – RN, Tracy Thompson – RN, and Erin (Charlotte’s bone marrow donor).

Posted September 11, 2020 by L. Elske in Uncategorized

May 31st, 2020. Day +3369. Charlotte’s 12th birthday.   1 comment

After a long and unexcused hiatus, I’m back with another update! 

And there’s no real update except we’re all here. We’re happy, healthy, and doing very well.  Coronavirus has kept us secluded to our house most of the time as we’re trying to stay safe at home for the past several months.

Amy and I and the girls have been working/schooling from home since the middle of March.  Charlotte and Molly only have 4 more days of “school” left this year and then they get to spend all day at home for the summer!!

The big news is that Charlotte turned 12 today!  That’s another huge milestone for Charlotte and our family in her long journey! We’re so blessed and thankful for her health and the fact that we are able to watch her enjoy life as a tween!!

We hope everyone is staying healthy and safe!

Please take care, and be kind to one another.  The world can’t have too much compassion.

Posted May 31, 2020 by L. Elske in Uncategorized

September 11th, 2019. Day +3106 9 years since diagnosis!   Leave a comment

Hello to everyone from the world of the Elske’s!  Today is the 9th year since Charlotte was diagnosed and we’ve again had a wonderful and fun-filled summer with family and friends.

We’ve been doing all of the normal things that families do since the last time I posted.  Traveling, swimming, camping, going up north, baseball and football games, exploring-all part of a balanced summer.  Charlotte turned 11(!) in May and we’ve had a busy summer ever since.  We’re also planning on seeing Erin again later this month so that will be another time to remember.  Thank you all for following our story and being a part of our lives.

September is National Childhood Cancer Awareness Month so please be sure to consider supporting organizations like American Family Children’s Hospital, Be The Match, Badger Childhood Cancer Network, St Jude’s, Make-A-Wish, Leukemia & Lymphoma Society, Give Kids the World Village, Red Cross and many more.

Posted September 11, 2019 by L. Elske in Uncategorized

March 11, 2019. Day +2922. 8 years since bone marrow transplant!!   1 comment

It’s really hard to believe it’s been another 6 months since my last post.  Things are still going as well as we could expect here.

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Tracy, Charlotte, Dr Diamond and Amy at CJ’s checkup appt in December 2018.

Today marks the 8 year anniversary of Charlotte’s bone marrow transplant and we feel so blessed to have her here with us every day!

Things have been very busy over the last 6 months with our lives.  Charlotte had her yearly oncology appointment with Dr Diamond in December and everything looked great again.  🙂   WBC count was 5.3,  Hemoglobin was 12.1,  241k Platelets and  Neutrophils were in at 2630.   She is having a bone density test next week to see if there was any chemo damage to her bones but it’s purely a protocol related follow-up test.

Charlotte and Molly have been busy the last month spreading Girl Scout joy in the form of GS Cookie Sales.  They’ve both been trying very hard to keep up with Mommy’s busy cookie booth schedule!  The final results aren’t in, but it looks like both of them were able to achieve their personal goal of selling 300+ boxes each.

Charlotte has been involved in the NASP Archery program in Columbus again and has been in 5 tournaments so far this year.  She has taken First Place once, Second Place three times(!) and came in fifth once.  She only has one or two tournaments left this year but we’re very proud of how far she has come.  She has been one of the top shooters in her division in the State!!!  We’re already planning out our summer practice schedule since next year she will be up against 6, 7th and 8th graders.

We continue to keep in touch with Erin, Charlotte’s bone marrow donor, and have seen her twice over the last 6 months- including this past weekend.  She was able to come to Wisconsin just in time to see Charlotte take over first place in the Portage tournament, beating out 33 other 4th and 5th grade girls.  She eventually lost to another girl at the end of the night taking second overall.  :\  Erin was able to hang out with us for two days, really taking in the very best Wisconsin weather we have to offer.  We started with a beautiful sunny day, then rain, then sleet, then very cold and windy blizzard conditions through the night!!!  She has been missing the snow since she moved from Philly several years ago so we’re just glad we could come through on her request!

Please take a moment to tell the people in your life that you love them and take some time to volunteer to make the world a better place for those that are suffering.  Many of us have been so very blessed and sometimes we just don’t know how special that is until our lives are interrupted and things just take a turn.  Let’s all be grateful for what and who we have.

Peace and love,

Lon

 

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Posted March 11, 2019 by L. Elske in Uncategorized

September 11th, 2018. Day +2741. 8 years since diagnosis.   1 comment

It’s been another busy summer of me ignoring this blog! The girls had a wonderful and fun-filled summer and stayed busy enjoying time outside and swimming and playing with the dog. They are happy and healthy and I cannot ask for more. Harris, our dog, has been growing up just as sassy as Broadway was, but he really is trying to be a good boy as often as he can.

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The four of us recently returned from a week long cruise to the Caribbean just before school started for the girls. It was a really nice way to end the summer! We had a really fun time and enjoyed visiting new places and seeing all of the sights. They spent a lot of time in the pool and water park on the ship while Amy and I relaxed in the sun and caught up on some reading. We swam with the stingrays and dolphins and went snorkeling and spent some real quality family time enjoying each other’s company in the small cabin. It was a well deserved rest and we won’t soon forget it!

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Daddy protecting Molly from a stingray!!

I would like to take a moment to ask you for prayers for a favorite co-worker of mine, Rob Gonzales. He’s been diagnosed with a brain tumor, and it sounds like there is just no cure for it. He’s always been friendly and helpful to me and I wish him and his family the best and pray for them every night.

 

Thank you all for checking on us and please take the time to tell your friends and family members that you love them and are thankful that they are in your lives.

Posted September 11, 2018 by L. Elske in Uncategorized

March 11th, 2018. Day +2557. 7 years post-transplant!!!   2 comments

It’s been a long time since I’ve last posted here (keep up with Amy and the girls on Facebook!!) and we’ve had another several months worth of happy memories that we will all cherish.  Charlotte’s annual appointment with Dr. Diamond went well and she is happy with how Charlotte is growing and progressing in school.  Amy and I spent a week and a half at Disney World in December with the girls and we had a wonderful time .  Charlotte and Molly have been enjoying school (save for homework) and spending time with friends and family around the holidays!  Charlotte and Molly (and Mommy) just wrapped up another successful year of selling Girl Scout Cookies, with each girl making her personal goal!  Charlotte has been active in archery in her school and she is becoming quite the marksman!!  I’ve proud of her for sticking with it, even though she wasn’t terribly happy to have us sign her up!  🙂

Today marks the 7th year since Charlotte received her life-saving stem cell transplant from our real-life angel, Erin.  We’ve been in constant contact with her and even seen her twice since my last update on this site.  We met up with her while we were in Disney World and she spent this whole past weekend with us.  She really has become part of our family and we’re so thankful for all she has given us.  She has made our family complete and we wouldn’t be where we are without her.

 

Posted March 11, 2018 by L. Elske in Uncategorized

October 8th, 2017. Day +2403   1 comment

We’ve had another wonderful summer with our family.  Charlotte and Molly are healthy and doing well. They both started school last month and are enjoying it!  We added another member to our family in July!  Harris is a Springer Spaniel, like Broadway, and boy is he a handful.  But we are having a great time with him.  The girls are wonderful with him and he’s already become an integral part of our family.
We spent a weekend with Erin, Charlotte’s bone marrow donor, last month as well!  All of us visited American Family Children’s Hospital and saw several of Charlotte’s old nurses.  They were so happy to meet Erin and we were so proud to show her off!  After that we had a customary Wisconsin fall weekend, including visiting the pumpkin patch and spending time with the family.
We’re so grateful to have her in our lives and we continue to pray for all of those affected by cancer every day.

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Posted October 8, 2017 by L. Elske in Uncategorized