December 19th, 2014. Day +1379. Charlotte’s yearly clinic appointment.   3 comments


Charlotte and Dr. Diamond

We hope you all have had a wonderful and safe holiday season so far.  Ours has been very busy with school activities (Charlotte and Molly), holiday shopping (Amy) and egg-nog drinking (me)!!

Today Charlotte had her yearly clinic appointment with Dr Diamond at The American Family Children’s Hospital.  It’s always a very nerve-racking appointment and Amy and I have been both looking forward to, and dreading this day.  We very much want to hear that the doctors and nurses think she looks great and we want to hear them say that she is doing so well.   But we don’t like putting Charlotte through the blood draw and we are always terribly anxious to know what those CBC and Echocardiogram results are.  So it’s a good thing this day only comes once a year now.


Charlotte, Ashley, and Molly

She was very brave during the blood draw and sat through the echo like a pro!  We couldn’t have been more proud of her!  Dr. Diamond was impressed with how tall she is getting and how big Molly is getting too!  Dr. Diamond said she had no concerns and thought Charlotte looked “perfect”.  Her only recommendation is for Charlotte to have her first neuropsych evaluation this summer.  Just to help us assess cognitively how she is doing after everything she has gone through in her young life and catch any potential side effects from the nasty chemo she received.  Had Charlotte been older at the time of her BMT, she would have had this evaluation then too but since she was only 2yrs old we got to skip it at the time.  Dr. Diamond states she doesn’t think anything concerning will be found, but in the event there are concerns with her learning it’s better to know now rather than later.  Charlotte’s CBC results came in later in the afternoon and those too looked perfect.  Her WBC was 6.0, Hemoglobin 12.4, Platelets 273k and Neutrophils 2560.  (did you get those Jason?) We stopped in on P4 and saw some of our favorite nurses and they all mentioned how great Charlotte was looking, and how thankful they were that we remembered to stop in to see them.  It was a surreal feeling to now be 4 years out from diagnosis and actually not have all of the staff not recognize us!! Or they would recognize Amy and me, but Charlotte and Molly were complete strangers to them.  (Except for Ashley that is….she gave us the warmest greeting!!!)   We celebrated by taking a trip to Toys-R-Us when the nurse called us with the Echo results.  Those too were perfect.  So all in all, it was a pretty damn great day.

Thank you again for checking in on us and we just want to say “Happy Holidays” from all of us to all of you.  We hope you all have a blessed and magical Christmas season.



Posted December 19, 2014 by L. Elske in Uncategorized

November 17th, 2014. Day +1347. It’s been a busy, busy fall season!!!   1 comment

DSC07774 DSC07945I apologize for the delay in posting again.  We have had a very busy and really awesome fall!

Amy and I surprised the girls in October with a trip to Disney World!!  We all had a fantastic time and already miss it dearly.  The girls were so excited to go and loved every minute of it.  We visited Give Kids the World again for a day and had a blast.  We even met with another family from New York who found our blog when their son was diagnosed.  He’s the cute one in the red and received his transplant from his superhero brother!  They were enjoying their Make-A-Wish trip the same time we were down there.  How cool is that??  We really connected with them and their two boys are adorable!  We spent the entire day with them at GKTW and at Magic Kingdom for the Halloween party!

We took a day off and drove to Sanibel Island to collect seashells on the beach.  The girls were thrilled to bring a huge bag of them home!  We also had dinner with my cousins who moved to sunny Florida many years ago but still keep in contact with us and love reading Charlotte’s updates.

We spent the next week at all of the Disney parks and couldn’t have had a better time.  Molly and Charlotte each met all of the princesses including Anna and Elsa!  All of us can’t wait to go again!

See more pictures on Amy’s facebook page here:  Disney pictures.

Charlotte has been enjoying first grade and Molly is also having a great time at 3K preschool.  We just celebrated Molly’s 4th birthday this past weekend with family.

Charlotte’s next appointment is coming up on December 19th.  She will be seen by Dr. Diamond and have another echocardiogram to monitor her heart for chemo damage.  We will update you when we know more.

Thank you all for checking in on us.  We hope you have a safe and happy holiday season.

Posted November 17, 2014 by L. Elske in Uncategorized

September 11th, 2014. Day +1280. Four years ago today…   1 comment

Four years ago today, Charlotte was diagnosed with AML.  She was 27 months old.

September 11, 2010.

September 11, 2010. Fighting a 105 degree fever.

September 2, 2014

September 2, 2014. Starting 1st grade.

It has been a wonderful 4 years-more magical and exciting than I could have ever imagined.  Every day I spend with our family is an absolute blessing!

It is because of Charlotte that we are walking in the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society’s Light the Night walk next Friday.  It is because of the families that we know who didn’t get four years with their child or family member.  It is because every three minutes one person in the US is diagnosed with a blood cancer.





Posted September 11, 2014 by L. Elske in Uncategorized

August 25th, 2014. Day +1263. September is Childhood Cancer Awareness Month!   Leave a comment

It’s been a wonderful and happy summer!  We have all been keeping busy!  The girls are having a great time every day, and I am sure they will miss each other when school starts next week.  Charlotte will be entering first grade, while Molly will be starting 3k preschool for a couple of mornings a charlotteelskeweek.  Amy and I are both excited to see them start school and learn and grow like every other child is doing.

We just had to share this picture as it is an example as to why we are trying to raise more money for blood cancer research. At summer school this year, Charlotte was asked to draw a timeline documenting her life. Everything above the purple line are the good things in her life. In case you can’t read it, the good things include Disney World, up north, learning to ride a bike, her birthday, and her cousin Brett’s birthday. Also listed is her port….this is how the nurses administered her chemo, medications, blood draws, and transfusions during her leukemia treatment. She knew how it important it was for her for those months and that’s why she wrote it on there.  Never in a million years would we have ever thought Charlotte considered her port as something “good.”
The bad things in her life are below the purple line. She simply wrote two things: Dean and Leukemia.  Her Great Uncle Dean lost his battle to the same cancer as Charlotte had last year. Uncle Dean was one of Charlotte’s biggest supporters and we miss him dearly every day.
photo(2)Charlotte was so proud of her timeline and I had a horrible time fighting back my tears. I firmly believe that no one, especially a 6 year old little girl, should ever have to list leukemia on her timeline.
Please help us fund more research so that we can find cures for this horrible disease. Help us keep the word leukemia off of the ti melines of so many others. Please join our team in honor of Charlotte and in memory of Dean. There is no registration fee so I encourage you to donate to yourself when you sign up.

I am also happy to announce that we will be having a fundraiser night at the Columbus Culver’s on Monday, September 8th from 5-8pm. Charlotte’s Angels will receive a percentage of all sales during that time frame. Please come for dinner and frozen custard and support this wonderful cause.  Or let us know if you are interested in helping us volunteer!

Posted August 25, 2014 by L. Elske in Uncategorized

August 4th, 2014. Day +1242   Leave a comment

We have had an enjoyable and quite busy summer so far!  Charlotte finished up summer school, and now she and Molly are in swim lessons.  They both love them and are learning a lot every day!  DSC07240

We were fortunate enough to attend a Brewer game with the Wisconsin Make-A-Wish chapter last month.  We all had a swell time!  I hope it’s the first of many games that we are able to attend.

We are excited to announce that Charlotte has been asked to be an Honored Hero for the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society’s Light the Night Walk.  The walk takes place on Friday, September 19th at 6:30pm at the Warner Park Duck Pond in Madison.  It is a fundraising walk to celebrate and commemorate lives touched by cancer.

For Charlotte and us having this walk in September is especially meaningful.  Not only is September National Childhood Cancer Awareness Month, but it will also be 4 years since Charlotte’s leukemia diagnosis.  We know that Charlotte benefited from research that organizations like LLS funds and we are thrilled to help raise crucial dollars to enable this research to touch more lives.

Please join us in honoring Charlotte by joining our team, Charlotte’s Angels.  All you need to do is click on the link below.  Can’t walk?  Please consider making a donation in honor of Charlotte instead.


Posted August 4, 2014 by L. Elske in Uncategorized

June 5th, 2014. Day +1182 Charlotte turns 6!   4 comments

Saturday was Charlotte’s 6th birthday!!!  The lucky girl had two birthday parties.  One with her friends from school, and another at our house with family.  Both she and Molly had a wonderful time DSC07087and kept right on playing until bedtime.

On Sunday we delivered balloons to AFCH, 4th floor to hopefully bring a little smile to someone who is spending their Sunday there.  It was awesome to see some of her favorite nurses again and they all couldn’t believe how big she has gotten-Molly too!

After that we went to Chuck-E-Cheese and had a swell time again!  Lots of junk food.  Lots of excitement.  Lots of playing last weekend!!


Posted June 5, 2014 by L. Elske in Uncategorized

May 18th, 2014. Day +1164.   2 comments

Well, it’s been over two months since I’ve last posted and I really have no excuse other than we have been busy doing regular things like any other family would be doing.IMG_1626

Charlotte is still very much enjoying school and is looking forward to having her school friends come to her birthday party at the end of the month. She is getting better with her reading and math and we can see little improvements every week. We are happier with the fact that she still likes school and is eager to talk about the things she does every day with her friends.

In case you hadn’t heard via other means, Kim Schuetz was named Leukemia and Lymphoma Society’s Woman of the year. She and her dedicated team of friends helped raise over $28,000 for the fight against blood cancers!

I wanted to let you know about another fundraiser that is close to our hearts. A cousin of mine contacted us about honoring Charlotte for her own St Baldrick’s fundraiser. St Baldrick’s is another wonderful organization dedicated to funding research to end childhood cancers and last year raised over 34 million dollars, 80% of which went directly to research. We are proud to know that such organizations exist and that people like Krysta are willing to shave their heads to raise money for a good cause.

Please consider making a donation to Krysta’s campaign by clicking here. We are forever grateful for all of those that have donated to this and other similar causes in the past.

Posted May 18, 2014 by L. Elske in Uncategorized


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